A Man Cries

I don't think it cowardly for a man to cry infront of people or his girl. However, I do think it cowardly for a man to think he shouldn't or cant cry because of what others might think (of him). Of course, as a man you shouldn't cry at a drop of a dime or at every lil thing but crying is ownership of true emotion an a connectedness to something- it shows true passion. crying shouldn't only be aloud when someone dies or break a bone. Cause if thats the case, you are taken a part of your manhood away. If it's something that God has made us to do - then by embracing the action you are embodying what it means to be a MAN. LAdies, do not condemn a man for crying- even if he isn't the toughest of men, for doing so makes you less of a lady. the real question should not be if your man is weak - but more importantky - is your man showing you the real him. if your man is a certain way and you chose him, then by all means embrace him and do what you can to take away his tears... by no means enable the tears, or perpeatuate his tears, or pain by judging him. you must EMPOWER HIM explore all the ways to make him heal with words and actions - and I bet he will try his best to not cry and it will be easier for hi to not cry in the future cause evrtything you have done has mad him stronger future events.  I assure you that the moment you judge your man for his tears (especially at a fragile moment in his life) your man will start on the road to hiding his real self from you. if a man shows you his tears - he's confiding his emeotions with you.  No man is perfect- he will not always cry at the right times just like no man will always be tough at the right times. think about it also -as a lady you will not always be sexy at the right times, ladylike or nurturing. Yes I said nurturing for your man (its not just something you do with/for kids). One must make an account in degrees and percentages.  ASK YOURSELF: "IS MY MAN  atleast 90% STRONG"?? AND being strong like in every since of the word: physical, mental, emotional,, faithful, spiritual. and he will not be 100% in all those areas, but if you can add all those up and you can still say your man in is 90% STRONG in those areas atleast 90% of the time - then LAdies you (cans say you) have a MAN!!!
  Yes-  I'll cry with my girl - especially if we are alone- til i'm blue in the face if it something that's affected me deeply, ill cry with her just to show her im intuned with her, ill cry even just to see where she stands on me crying and if she condemns me or judges me for it, then- im sorry, she has GOTS to go -  casue she just AINT "LADY ENOUGH" for me.